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Acceptance & Affirmation is when
a
person can say something like, “Didn’t like it, but I have lots to
contribute
and now my job is to find a place where I can be fully satisfied and
fully
productive at the same time.”
In working with thousands of people
who’ve
lost their jobs, we’ve encouraged people to resolve:
“A year from now I will be in a better
position than I am today. And
I can go
back and thank the person for the favor done to me which led to this
new
venture.”
Over
90% of
them do. And it
begins by understanding
the job loss reaction cycle everyone goes through.
Most of the people we’ve worked with over
the years get to Acceptance and Affirmation rather quickly. That’s because the focus
is on each person’s
accomplishments, the results of her or his work, the successes a person
has
had. After
all, when you focus on what
you’ve done well, it’s not difficult to be positive.
And energetic.
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This is a summary of the book chapter “What Can I Expect Now?” from Make Job Loss Work For You (JIST Publishing, 2020). Understanding the Deems Job Loss Reaction Cycle™ and keeping track of where you are in the Cycle gives you an edge in turning job-hunting into JobGetting.
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